Lifestyle

Planning ahead for that Thanksgiving meal

Thanksgiving is a few weeks away and planning ahead is always your best bet. By planning your menu early and shopping for your needed groceries when they are on sale will help keep your stress level and the expenses lower than if you didn’t take the time to plan. The USDA offers many helplines to get you through your holiday meals and I will list them in this column, but first let’s get busy by asking ourselves a few simple questions. First, how do you decide on the turkey? Well, that depends upon if you want to purchase a fresh or frozen bird and how big of a bird that you want. Either way, plan on purchasing a bird that isn’t bigger than what your refrigerator can hold. A fresh bird will need to be kept cold until you are ready to cook it and you should only purchase it about one to two days in advance. A frozen bird can be purchased at any time ahead of the holiday, but it needs to have enough time to thaw and the best method of doing this is in your refrigerator. If you don’t get it in the refrigerator in time, you can use the cold water thawing method. Either way, please avoid purchasing a prestuffed turkey.

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Pumpkins can be composted, donated to farms, fed to wildlife

Hold off before throwing that porch pumpkin into the trash along with Halloween candy wrappers. Those jack-o’-lanterns don’t have to end up in the local landfill. Consider composting pumpkins in the garden, donating them to community gardens, farms or even a zoo, or simply leaving them as a snack for backyard wildlife. Gardeners can add pumpkins to the compost pile after removing any remaining seeds and being sure to cut off decorative material such as glitter, paint, stickers and candle wax. Slice the pumpkin into smaller pieces, scatter and bury them into the pile. And don’t worry if the pumpkin has already started getting moldy — those microorganisms aid the composting process.

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Library celebrates Halloween with festival

Marie Green reads a book to her children, Jacob, 5, and Elsie, 18 months, Saturday in the Finney County Public Library’s Nature Explore Center. Reading was one of the activities at the facility available during its annual Halloween Festival with games and activities in the afternoon event, as well as treats being handed out. BRAD NADING/GARDEN CITY TELEGRAM

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Choice of Halloween candy matters for wildlife

Did you know your choice in Halloween candy can affect the status of wildlife around the world? It may seem a little farfetched, but because that chocolate bar or piece of candy you eat almost certainly contains palm oil or one of its derivatives, if it is not sustainably sourced its production may be resulting in the loss of vast areas of animal habitat. Without knowing it, most of us probably eat or use palm oil every day.

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Ask Amy: Couple should separate during separation

Dear Amy: For the past year, I have been dating a man who is separated from his wife. They separated shortly before we started dating, and both want a divorce. He loves his two children (11 and 13) very much, but does (fairly openly) regret having children with her. He and I currently live together - I know we rushed this, but there were various factors (he is still paying the mortgage on his house, and all expenses. His wife doesn’t work). His friends know about me, but his wife is barely aware of my existence/importance to him, and doesn’t know that we live together. I’m fine with this because her knowing could make the divorce worse. Nor do I really want to interact with her. Bluntly speaking, he is dreading starting divorce proceedings due to the nastiness that could ensue around the money/ potentially selling their house. He is not moving forward, and is very upset when I bring it up. I am 31, and very much want to have a family (especially with him). He also echoes this and says he wants the same thing. My concern is that the divorce will take a long time due to his fears/inaction, and thus the integration of me into his life (i.e. meeting his children) will take more time, and I’ll be too old to have a child.

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Wild weekend of events on tap at zoo

This weekend, Lee Richardson Zoo will come alive with familyfriendly ‘spooktacular’ treat stops, singing witches, and more for the 27th annual Boo! at the Zoo today. The next day, on Sunday, we’ll be celebrating two conservation days – World Lemur Day and World Snow Leopard Day! The zoo is closed today until Boo! at the Zoo begins, with gates open for the event from 4 p.m.

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Ask Amy: College debt could be repaid with a ticket

Dear Amy: I paid for a large portion of my favorite nephew’s college expenses (he’s also my godson). I was happy to do this because I love him and want to support him. His mother (my sister) has told me that he has asked to only have immediate family at his college graduation ceremony and dinner this coming spring, which means I would not be included. I know that as an adult (he’s 23) he has a right to choose who he wants to celebrate his graduation with, but can I at least tell him how hurt I am by this? Can I ask that I also be included (and that I will leave my husband and daughter at home)?

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